The breeze has grown steady these last days. Its chill finds its way into our sleeves and collars before we are quite ready to admit that summer has passed. Along the roadsides and at the edges of the fields, white snakeroot has opened in clusters of small blossoms. From a distance, they look almost like the first suggestion of snow.
I find myself slowing down to look at them, though I know what follows. In a few weeks, frost will take the flowers. The mornings will be darker when we leave the house. The wind will find the gaps in our coats and the thin places in our shoes.
We feel that change at the free lunch program. As the air cools, more people come through the door. They come for a meal, certainly. They also come for warm coffee and a place to sit awhile. There are familiar faces around the tables, and there are people walking in for the first time, unsure of what to expect. Someone greets them. Someone makes room.
I think often about the difference a welcome can make. When a person has spent the day wondering where to get warm or how to make a small amount of money last, it matters to find a place where they can sit down without having to explain themselves.
This week, an older woman came forward with a newcomer. She had noticed that he needed a coat and shoes for the colder days ahead. I do not know how long they had been talking or what led her to ask on his behalf. I only know that she stood beside him and brought his need to our attention.
We found a coat. Then we opened the totes and searched for shoes that would fit. There were lids to lift and boxes to move, and the first pair we found was not necessarily the right one. It took time to look through what had been given and find something he could wear. When we placed the shoes in his hands, the gentleman called them his “Sunday shoes.”
I have been thinking about those words ever since.
Perhaps he meant they were good shoes, the sort you might wear to church. Perhaps he was simply pleased to have found a pair that fit. I did not ask him to explain, and I am glad I didn’t. “Sunday shoes” was what he called them. The words belonged to him.
I hope he wears them whenever he needs them, on Sundays and all the ordinary days between. I hope they keep his feet warm when the wind turns sharp. And I hope that, when he puts them on, he remembers the woman who noticed him and walked with him to ask for help.
She was part of the free lunch community, too. She had come through the door and found a place at the table. Then she looked around and saw someone else who might need one. That is how much of this ministry happens: one person notices, another searches through the totes, and something given by a neighbor finds its way to a neighbor who can use it.
The white blossoms along the roadside will soon disappear beneath frost. Winter will come, with more cold mornings and more needs than any one of us can meet. We will keep doing what we can with what has been entrusted to us, and we will need one another to do it. The coffee will be on. There will be food at the table and someone to say, “Come in.”
And somewhere among the coats and boxes, there may be another pair of Sunday shoes.
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